“The more someone engages in regular casual sex, the more difficult it becomes to emotionally connect with the one guy that you end up dating seriously”, says Dr. Brian Rzepczynski.
In this highly controversial interview, psychotherapist and Gay Love Coach, Dr. Rzepczynski gives us his first hand account of how sexual behaviors impact our search for a long term gay relationship.
In this interview, Dr. Rzepczynski reveals:
• The long-term, physical and emotional signals that you need to watch out for when you blur your sexual life with your search for Mr. Right
• How to fill your immediate sexual needs and still be focusing your dating energy into finding a successful gay relationship
• What is emotional “safe sex” and how you can define your sexual values and the role that sex will play in gay dating for men
• An important cornerstone of gay dating advice, how casual sex can create a mental conditioning that makes it difficult to build and maintain a successful, long-term relationship and what you can do to prevent that from happening
• The glaring, sexual “red flags” to look for in yourself and your sexual partner that are clues to the low probability of deep, long-term, emotional connection that can plague gay single men
• How to develop a dating “screening tool” you can use to dramatically increase the likelihood that the guy your attracted to aligns with what’s important for you in a relationship
• Specific actions steps that you can start using right now to meet your immediate sexual needs and still be physically and emotionally available for Mr. Right when you meet him.
Dr. Brian Rzepczynski is a psychotherapist and relationship coach who holds a Doctorate Degree in human sexuality and a Master’s Degree in clinical social work. In 1993 Brian established The Gay Love Coach: Man 4 Man Coaching Services to fill the need for gay men to receive help in maintaining healthy and successful relationships. As a leading author on the subject of gay relationship advice, Brian’s is frequently published in The Chicago Tribune, MSN.com, most of the gay online and print journals and as a columnist in the leading online dating sites. Brian holds regular workshops on gay dating, relationships and sexuality. He makes his home in Chicago with his partner Scott of 12 years.
Brian’s blog and FREE newsletter is one of the best resources for dating and relationships that we have seen. You can sign up at www.thegaylovecoach.com
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